I made this list while I was in a terrible relationship. Now that I've finally escaped from said relationship, I decided to revisit this list. You know that quote, "It's better to be alone than with someone who makes you feel alone..." Well, it couldn't be more true!!! I never knew what a negative weight I was holding my shoulders until I finally was brave enough to release it. I felt almost instantly happier. I don't regret the decisions I've made or my past relationship, but I will say that it has certainly helped me realize what I want in a life partner and that it's so important to wait for that special person. So... in effort to never forget I truly want in my life teammate - I'm throwing it on my blog so I don't lose it! :)
When I
stop to think about what I need from a boyfriend, here is what comes to mind…
- They make me feel full of love and special.
- I never question how they feel about me because they find small ways to let know.
- I am never fearful to talk to them about anything whatsoever. In fact, they are the first person I want to talk to!
- They never miss a moment to communicate their love to me.
- They will pull me close and hold me in the middle of the night randomly… just because.
- When I say I’m upset, they are concerned not defensive.
- They are selfless, not just with me, but in life in general.
- They are ridiculously kind.
- They put others first and have incredibly generous hearts – even at no gain of their own.
- They are very understanding and patient.
- They make me laugh.
- They like to let loose and just be goofy or playful – they can create their own fun and entertainment!
- Life with them is adventurous and never boring!
- It doesn’t have to be in public, but to me, they are lovey dovey. They shower me with that affirmation simply because they love me that much.
- They would never do anything to hurt me.
- I can make them laugh!
- They are willing to give things up for me, as I would for them.
- They will never pursue something for themselves if it is incredibly upsetting for me.
- They are faithful.
- I never question their loyalty to me.
- They are as much of a dog person as I am – and want to be with Cooper before I even ask.
- They integrate me into their life and passion.
- Their world is not black and white – they are comfortable with gray sometimes.
- They are not uptight or make me feel like I’m walking on eggshells.
- We are each other’s biggest fans.
- They immediately like my friends, and my friends like him.
- They have their own strong core group of friends that they are excited to introduce me to.
- They make little efforts to make my day happier.
- They aren’t afraid to show others how they feel about me.
- They don’t shy away from talking about the future.
- They are not judgmental in nature
- They are open-minded!
- They listen and remember things I’ve said.
- They tell me what they think and aren’t afraid to communicate.
- They are never too busy for me!
- They make plans to do things I’ve mentioned that I’d love to try.
- They are genuinely concerned if I’m sick and will bring me something, even if I tell them not to!
- They are excited about a future that includes me.
- I never feel like an obligation or accessory.
- They don’t keep secrets from me.
- They stick around and work harder even when things get difficult.
- Time with them never gets old or boring.
- They value me as a person and a friend – not just as a significant other.
- They commit.
- They know exactly how to make me smile – even on my hardest days!
- They want to get to know my family and enjoy spending time with them!
- They never lose their gentlemanly traits even when the “honeymoon” phase is over.
- They make me laugh more than they make me cry!
- They understand that relationships take work.
- They appreciate the things I do for them.
- They never let the romance die!
- They factor me into their decisions – especially their big life decisions.
- They want to take getaways together.
- I never feel unattractive or unwanted in their eyes.
- I never feel empty in my relationship with them.
- They make me want to be a better person in every way.
